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How to Know You’re an Alcoholic: Recognizing the Signs

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In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to overlook the subtle shift between casual drinking and alcohol dependence. Recognizing the signs of alcoholism early can change the trajectory of your life—or the life of someone you love. At Vanguard Behavioral Health, we know that alcoholism isn’t a failure of willpower. It’s a medically recognized disorder, often shaped by genetics, trauma, and the environment.

This guide will walk you through how to know you’re an alcoholic, what symptoms to watch for, and how to seek help that works for your life.

Understanding Alcoholism

Alcoholism, also known as Alcohol Use Disorder (AUD), is a chronic medical condition. It’s characterized by compulsive alcohol use, loss of control over drinking, and continued use despite consequences. According to the Mayo Clinic (2023), AUD can range from mild to severe and often includes behaviors like binge drinking, tolerance, and withdrawal symptoms.

This isn’t just about how much someone drinks—it’s also about how alcohol affects daily life, relationships, and mental and physical health. People with AUD may appear outwardly “functional” while battling addiction privately.

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Recognizing the Clinical Signs of Alcohol Use Disorder

Clinicians often use the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) to identify Alcohol Use Disorder. Here are some signs they look for—ask yourself how many of these feel familiar:

  • You often drink more than you planned to

  • You’ve tried to cut back but couldn’t

  • You spend a lot of time drinking or recovering from it

  • You crave alcohol frequently

  • Drinking has interfered with work, school, or home life

  • You continue to drink despite arguments or tension with loved ones

  • You’ve lost interest in activities you used to enjoy

  • You drink in dangerous situations, such as before driving

  • You’ve built up a tolerance and need more to feel the effects

  • You feel withdrawal symptoms such as shaking, nausea, or anxiety when not drinking

According to the American Psychiatric Association (2013), experiencing two or more of these within a 12-month period may indicate AUD. If this sounds familiar, you are not alone—and recovery is possible.

If you’re unsure where to start, explore our alcohol detox program for safe and supportive options.

The Different Faces of Alcoholism

Not all individuals struggling with alcoholism share the same experience. Research shows that people with Alcohol Use Disorder often fit into one of these categories:

The Young Adult Drinker
Typically begins binge drinking in late teens or early twenties. May not drink daily but drinks heavily when they do.

The Functional Alcoholic
Appears successful and responsible but relies on alcohol privately to cope with stress or emotions.

The Familial Dependent
Grew up around heavy alcohol use and developed unhealthy patterns early in life.

The Antisocial Drinker
Often struggles with co-occurring mental health issues such as trauma, anxiety, or depression alongside alcohol use.

The Chronic Severe Drinker
Faces the most serious health and emotional consequences and is often the most likely to seek treatment.

At Vanguard Behavioral Health, we personalize treatment plans to match each client’s background and needs. Learn more about our personalized addiction treatment programs.

Physical, Behavioral, and Early Signs of Alcoholism

Some signs of alcoholism are easier to notice than others. Understanding these can make it easier to recognize the need for support.

Physical Signs

  • Shaking or sweating when not drinking

  • Memory lapses or blackouts

  • Slurred speech and slowed coordination

  • Unexplained fatigue, malnutrition, or skin changes

Behavioral Signs

  • Secretive or defensive behavior about drinking

  • Drinking alone or at inappropriate times

  • Neglecting responsibilities

  • Increased conflict with family or coworkers

Early Warning Signs

  • Often drinking more than intended

  • Using alcohol to cope with stress or emotions

  • Planning the day around alcohol availability

How Alcohol Impacts Your Health Over Time

While alcohol may seem harmless at first, long-term use can lead to serious health complications. Chronic drinking can cause:

  • Liver damage, including fatty liver disease and cirrhosis

  • Increased risk of heart problems like arrhythmias and hypertension

  • Higher likelihood of certain cancers, including breast, liver, and throat cancers

  • Weakened immune function, making it harder to fight off infections

  • Cognitive decline, memory loss, and mood disorders

According to the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (2023), prolonged heavy drinking dramatically increases the risk of multiple chronic diseases and mental health issues.

What Happens When You Stop Drinking?

Alcohol withdrawal can be physically and emotionally taxing. Symptoms may start within hours after stopping and can include:

  • Anxiety or irritability

  • Nausea and vomiting

  • Heavy sweating and tremors

  • Difficulty sleeping or vivid nightmares

  • In severe cases, seizures or hallucinations

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When Should You Seek Help?

If you’re wondering, “Is my drinking a problem?”—trust your instincts. Maybe friends or family have expressed concern, or maybe you’ve noticed changes in your mood, energy, or relationships.

You don’t need to wait for a “rock bottom” moment. Seeking help early can change your life.

For tips on choosing the right facility for your needs, read how to choose a rehab facility.

Self-Check: Is Alcohol Taking More Than It Gives?

Here’s a simple checklist to help you reflect:

  • I feel guilty or regretful after drinking

  • I’ve tried to stop but couldn’t

  • I need more alcohol now to feel relaxed

  • I hide how much I drink from others

  • Drinking has caused problems at work, home, or school

  • I continue drinking even when it worsens health or relationships

If more than one of these feels true for you, it might be time to seek support. You can confidentially contact us to start the conversation.

References

American Psychiatric Association. (2013). Diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders (5th ed.). Arlington, VA: American Psychiatric Publishing.

Mayo Clinic. (2023). Alcohol use disorder – Symptoms and causes. Retrieved from https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/alcohol-use-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20369243

National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism. (2023). Understanding Alcohol Use Disorder. Retrieved from https://www.niaaa.nih.gov/publications/brochures-and-fact-sheets/understanding-alcohol-use-disorder

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Rebecca Haws Clinical Social Worker
Driven by a passion for self-improvement and a deep desire to help others, I pursued a career in social work. In 2019, I earned my Bachelor's degree in Social Work, followed by my Master's in 2024, both from the Facundo Valdez School of Social Work at New Mexico Highlands University. This academic journey has equipped me with the skills and knowledge to support others in their quest to find their voice and reclaim their lives, particularly after making the courageous decision to enter treatment.